It seems that emergency room visits are becoming more common for my family. I went 30 years without seeing the interior of an ER, and now I've had two visits in the past two years. I spent the day after Thanksgiving 2007 in the ER and several hours in the ER yesterday with my son. He's fine and all is well, except for perhaps my stress levels.
We were at school in a 4-H meeting. My son, and another four year-old*, after just being asked to get off of a table because it wasn't safe to climb on them, climbed up on another table and managed to flip it over. Unfortunately the table landed on my son.
I heard the "crash" of the table landing, turned around, and ran over to him. He immediately started wailing about his hand. It looked OK and he could move all of his fingers, so I immediately felt a sense of relief. That's when I saw his forehead. Dear Lord! He had a goose egg (a hematoma according to my EMT hubby) the size of a golf ball with a inch and a half horizontal cut (contusion) right across the middle. That sucker was the biggest bump I had ever seen. That's when I got worried.
I scooped him up, got him into his coat and snow pants, hopped on a friend's snowmobile , and rushed to the Medical Center; working hard not to freak out the entire way. (Which luckily was only about a half a mile.) School had called so the doctor and nurse were expecting us and had ice packs ready. S was still crying when they took him in for X-rays, so the X-ray technician asked me to sit him on my lap and hold him and then assured him, "If you can hold your hand really still so we can take some pictures, you can have a sucker."
That's all it took; he was able to calm down, and they got three good images of his hand. (Silly me forgot to take pictures of the X-rays - guess I was preoccupied.) I was so relieved when she told us nothing was broken. The doctor kept us at the ER for a while so she could be sure he didn't have a head injury, and then she sent us home with instructions to wake him up every two to three hours all night long. If we couldn't wake him or he couldn't answer simple questions like, "What is your sister's name?" we were to call 911.
My wonderful husband took that job. Probably because he knew I would stress out and overreact about something and end up waking him up to double-check anyway. Apart from two big purple bruises, S seems no worse for wear. He tells me, "Tables can tip over and hurt," so I am hopeful he learned a valuable lesson yesterday. I'm also hopeful that I won't be in another emergency room any time soon despite the doctor's warning; "As the mother of a son, this is most likely not your last visit to the emergency room with him." I can hope though, can't I?
* T had a small bump on the back of his head and is also just fine.































